Happy Freedom Friday, Gorgeous!
I hope you’re good and excited for the weekend?
Yesterday afternoon, I shut off notifications on my phone, made some Starbucks Peach Tranquility Tea and wrote the first worksheet / course work for something special I am bringing to your really shortly!
Gawd, I’ve always wanted that messy, crazy “writers hair” while I’m zoned in and flowing. I think I knocked it out of the park.
I wrote about your DESIRES.
Since, I love taking you on my day to day journey and my own growth, let’s talk a bit about what I gave you in the workbook yesterday.
I’ve been open and learning as I go on with my own personal, spiritual and business growth and as simple as it sounds, in order for you to go from where you are to where you want to be, you must take time to be real and vulnerable with what you desire.
The first “rule” of improving your life and business is….
>> You must believe that something better exists.
I know, it’s sounds simple and so easy, right?
The truth is, many women come to me and they have no idea what they want. Their desires have been pushed so far aside that they’ve lost complete feeling of what it would be like to have what they want. When I ask them, they stumble and fumble and tell me what they don’t want, but that act of expressing what they deeply desire can be a struggle for a lot of people.
I know what this feels like to be confused and question if it’s even OK to want more than you have.
I used to get my journal out and start writing the things I thought I wanted and all of a sudden, my pen would go down, the journal would close and my mind was repeating my story; “you won’t ever get that stuff anyways…..you’re not good enough….you don’t deserve it….how will you pay for all this?!” and my EGO would win.
I let it.
Interesting enough, it all comes down to fear. The fear we’ll get hurt if we expose what we want and don’t get it, the fear of failure, the fear of not begin good enough for more, the fear of people calling us self-centred or shallow for wanting more, fear, fear, fear!
My mom and I sat at the kitchen table the other night talking about how is so controlling and “real” for people while they’re living it or facing it, but this is all an illusion.
When I started in business I decided I was so done with my story. I was sick of waking up and feeling like I was trapped and small because I wasn’t stepping out more and taking risks that I wanted to take. The decision for me to BELIEVE there was more for my life was easy and it was a simple decision.
I hope it is for you?
We are spiritual beings so deserve everything we can see and that we want. The only reason you wouldn’t go after your desires or even write out your desires is because your false, ego story is on repeat and you believe it more than you trust your feelings and intuition.
So, today, let’s start fresh….look at your desires.
>> Take a moment to write your desires down.
>> Take another moment to think of at least 3 reasons why you CAN have what you want?
Your old story of fearful “how’s” and “I can’t” isn’t serving you any longer and to move forward in your life where you create your dreams and live as your highest self needs you to start focusing on the THREE REASONS why you can have what you want.
How does this feel?
Imagine what your life would look like if you started living each day from this space – why do I deserve my desires?
I hope this helps you today, love!
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+ What are your 3 reasons that you can have what you want?
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