You know the feeling when you experience being shafted by a friend? Maybe your spouse is driving you up the wall and you are always in turmoil with each other?!
Oh relationships. Dang they can be such a headache at times, can’t they be?! But today I’m going to share with you how even the anger in a relationship is ever so beautiful at the same time!
You have a big message here waiting for you.
I’ve been in some pesky triggers with a friend lately….
Honestly it had me in the dumps for a few days and was really messing with my emotions. Being a student of A Course in Miracles I started to pray for guidance and my message has come to me loudly.
Your Relationships are Divine Assignments!
We are big ol mirrors just walking the streets, highlighting and exposing each other’s “hidden shadows” and we see them clearly through the people closest to us. You might be so miffed that your husband is “lazy” and doesn’t do the things you expect for him to do around the house, or heck maybe he’s so busy you feel neglected or not needed.
Maybe you’re like me and a unsettling trigger is going on between you and a friend, but it’s not fully exposed yet, so it almost pokes at you.
This little constant poke has been doing a number on my energy and vibes, UNTIL I recognized what the heck was going on an WHAT I needed to learn from this time in my life.
What was I seeing in my friend that I needed to look at within myself? What was she reflecting back to me? Why does my husbands “laziness” make me so mad?! Where do I need to shift my perception here?
I’ve sat on the floor with my Wild Orange and Cedarwood Essential Oils diffusing like a mad woman as I dove into these triggers and my anger. But the same message kept coming, and it’s SIMPLE. You need to accept every relationship as a mirror and as an assignment for you to explore or heal to move forward in your life, or you will keep recreating more of the same.
Yup. My divine assignment was loud and clear to me and it was time I move forward with grace..
I share more in this FB LIVE I did on the @iheartwellness page, so have a watch now!
Your Relationships are Divine Assignments:
Also, if you’re getting triggered by your partner, I got you!!
Our romantic relationships are the ones that can really bring up our STUFF!!
Check out these blog posts I did on “How to Stop Giving Your Power Away to Your Partner!” and “What to do if Your Partner Doesn’t Support Your Growth!”
Q: I want to hear from you – what was your biggest takeaway from the video above? Do you see how some of your relationships are mirrors and assignments for you to heal and grow from?